It is a well known fact that communication is the key to success in any relationship, even the ones that initiate and evolve online. If you can’t put your thoughts and ideas across successfully or understand what the other person is trying to convey, yours is a lost cause. Keeping this in mind, numerous men intending to use Chinese dating websites to find a perfect Chinese partner, try to learn at least a few commonly used phrases of Mandarin so that they are able to communicate with their online dates in a better manner.
In 1979, the Chinese government standardized the pronunciations of Mandarin besides adapting the Pinyin system for learning the language. According to the standards, each word of Mandarin is composed of two sounds，namely the beginning sound and the ending sound, and a combination of these sounds forms one syllable. In addition, each combination has four different tones and every tone has unique meaning. As such people learning mandarin need to be extremely careful about using the right tone or else they might change the meaning of the word completely and land in embarrassing situations, which is quite common on Chinese dating websites. The best way to overcome this problem is to first learn the phrases without focusing on the exact way in which they are pronounced. Later, having got a hang of the words, mastering their tone and pronunciation can be practiced.
Even though it is nearly impossible to master Mandarin within just a few weeks, leave alone few days, it is a good idea to start with small phrase used in everyday conversations. In fact, for most people using Chinese dating websites, this much knowledge of the language can prove sufficient at least until the time they find the right dating partner for a exploring a deeper relationship. Even then there is no need to rush into learning the language in the shortest possible time as the fact that their dating partner has shown interest in learning the language is enough to impress most Chinese women. In fact, they will likely be overjoyed to help you in learning the language in a more relaxed and friendly atmosphere.
When we learn a language, we can’t help learning a great deal about the people and culture it belongs to. This when you end up with a lovely Chinese woman as your Chinese dating partner any time and effort you put into learning the language will be worth it many times over.